Notice that some of the qualities you have listed are both skills and mindset. For example, you can have the best listening skills and still not hear what someone says. In order to really hear another person, you must be curious and want to hear you must have the proper mindset to truly engage in listening.
Count the number of listed qualities that are skills, versus mindset. Chances are that mindset outweighs skills. If so, you've just seen for yourself that mindset is the most important ingredient in leadership. You must choose to lead, and consistently act out of the mindset of a leader. Do you choose leadership?
"If you were a leader, what would you do now?" What difference would that question make in terms of how you choose to behave?